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Appearence
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#1 importance at first when in a relationsip
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Similarity
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We like people who are simlar to us, reduces anxiety in the relationship. too much can be too bad.
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Complimentary
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When your strengths meet their weaknesses.
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Rewards
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We choose to be in relationships that we benefit fromrewards-costs=outcome
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Proximity
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We are more attracted to people we see regulary
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Competency
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We like people that are competent, people that have talent
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Disclosure
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Sharing private information makes you feel trusted
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Knaps 10 stage model (10)
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Initiatingexperimentingintensifyingintegratingbondingdifferentiatingcircumscribingstagnatingavoidingterminating
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Coming together (4)
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Initiatingexperimentingintesnifyingintegrating
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Relational maitenence (3)
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Integratingbondingdifferentiating
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Comming apart (5)
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Differentiatingcircumscribingstagnatingavoidingterminating
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Initiating
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The first stage where you show that you are interested in talking to another person
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Experimenting
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Getting to know the new person, asking basic questions
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Intensifying
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Participating in shared activities, hanging out with mutual friends, saying "i love you". a time of excitment and euphoria
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Integrating
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Coming together as a whole, instead of saying you will do something you say "we" you are now a package.
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